Things every new cat owner should know.
Give your cat their best life.
Welcome to the Joyful World of Cat Parenthood!
Congrats on bringing a touch of wildness into your home! Cats have been cherished companions for thousands of years, and for good reason—they’re loving, playful, and just a little mysterious.
Your new cat or kitten is more than just a pet—they’re a magical, empathic companion who can brighten your days for 20+ years. Cats have special powers too: their purring can calm anxiety and even lower blood pressure. They pick up on your moods, sense your emotions, and even have unique “meows” just for you. Plus, they’re your personal ghostbusters, bug repellents, and nighttime guardians.
But as their new parent, it’s up to you to ensure your furry friend lives their healthiest and happiest life. Over my years as a professional cat sitter, I’ve learned what makes for great cat parenting—and I’m here to share the essentials.
The Basics of Purr-fect Cat Care…
Playtime Every Day
Cats need daily play sessions (15–20 minutes) to stay happy and healthy. They’re natural hunters, even if their prey is just a toy on a string. Let them chase, jump, and “catch” their target—it’s instinctual and so much fun for them!
Timing Tip: Cats are most active at dawn and dusk. A quick play session before bedtime, followed by a snack, can help them sleep through the night (and keep you from those 4 a.m. wake-ups).
Sunshine and Fresh Air
Happy cats get a little outdoor time every day. Whether it’s a safe, supervised backyard adventure, a stroll on a leash, or relaxing in a screened porch or catio, fresh air and sunshine can improve your cat’s behavior and mood.
Food and Nutrition
Cats are obligate carnivores—they must eat meat to thrive. Skip the vegetarian or vegan diets; they aren’t safe for cats.
Cats absorb most of their water from food. A diet of wet or raw food is best—dry kibble can lead to chronic dehydration, obesity, and urinary or kidney issues.
Look for wet foods in pate’ form with limited, grain-free ingredients. Avoid starchy gravies and read labels carefully.
Fresh Water, Always
Cats need constant access to clean, fresh water. Wide, shallow bowls are best to keep their whiskers comfortable. If your cat prefers running water, a pet fountain is a great option—but be sure to clean it weekly and replace filters regularly. Tip: Cats will drink more water from a bowl that is located at least 6 feet away from their food station and filled with fresh clean water.
Litter Box Love
A clean litter box = a happy cat (and household!).
Scoop daily, or twice for the best results.
Wash the box monthly and replace it every two years to avoid odors and bacteria buildup.
Use unscented, dust-free litter—it’s healthier for both you and your cat.
Dental Health
Regular vet cleanings (every other year) are a must for healthy teeth. Some cats are prone to dental issues, but daily brushing (if tolerated) can help.
Nail Trims and Grooming
Keep those claws in check with monthly trims, and brush your cat as needed. Long-haired breeds require extra attention, including daily brushing and seasonal grooming.
Scratching and Climbing
Scratching is normal and necessary—it helps cats stretch, de-stress, and mark territory. Provide sturdy scratching posts or pads to protect your furniture.
Cats also love high perches to lounge and observe their surroundings. Consider adding cat trees, shelves, or window hammocks to give them their own elevated kingdom.
Save for Their Future
Cats need regular vet visits, occasional dental cleanings, and may develop medical issues as they age. Setting up a pet savings account can help you cover these expenses without stress.
Final thoughts
Your cat will teach you as much as you’ll teach them. They’ll show you how they like to be pet (cheeks and chins are usually favorites!) and remind you that their trust is a gift.
Here’s to many years of cuddles, purrs, and joyful moments with your new purr-kid!
Want to learn more about cats and what makes them happy? Here’s a list of some of my favorite reads:
Total Cat Mojo, Jackson Galaxy
CatWise, Pam Johnson-Bennett
Starting from Scratch, How to correct behavior problems in your adult cat; Pam Johnson-Bennett